“Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”. – Oscar Wilde
Never forget that you are unique and that you are a great person and you have undeniable qualities. You have to accept that and you can better connect with your inner being. We just want to be ourselves. But this is more difficult to implement in a realistic world. Many seem to have no idea who they really are. This has to stop, and it can and must stop. We’ve wasted enough time on the plans of others for us. We have not been ourselves long enough. As soon as we decide to be ourselves, we open the door to freedom and love.
Whatever you do in your life, there will always be a judgment that must be ignored. You are the only person who knows your worth and why you make that decision. No one should stop you from living the life you want to lead. You are free to make your decisions and to embellish on your choices. Always stay true to your conscience and the values you wish to follow
Surround yourself with the right people:
Always surround people who offer hands to pull you up and with whom you feel comfortable. If you are in the presence of a person with whom you can be yourself, a person who understands you without judging then you can trust that one. These people always motivate and accept you like the way you are. These people want to see your success. Good things happen in your life when you surround yourself with positive people.
Let them go:
Everything you’ve experienced has made who you are today, and that’s good. Everything has its value and importance. past relations with people who want to keep you inferior and pull you down. Self-doubts and reproaches, your regrets … with too many heavy burdens from the past you cannot get any further. And only you can unload these burdens and move forward. If you want to fly, give up everything that weighs you down.
Accept yourself with all your strengths and weaknesses:
To accept means to accept everything without judgments and comparisons.
What are you good at? Which of your strengths have you not yet agreed? What is more difficult for you? Which of your weaknesses did you not want to see? Remember admitting your weakness doesn’t diminish your strengths: It shows your courage.
Arrange your values and priorities:
The values and priorities that we have determined whether we are happy or unhappy. Ask yourself What is really important for you and what do you want to avoid? How would you arrange the following values for yourself: Freedom, love, success, power, adventure, passion, peace, health, security
Learn to love life outside of your comfort zone:
Comfort zone is the killing zone for one’s future and potential. Outside of your comfort zone, you can identify your true potential and skills. You will never be the real you if you try to remain inside the comfort zone.
Do not try to impress others:
Impressing others is one of the main reasons why we hurt our own values, lying to ourselves and others, pretending to be wrong and not doing what we think is right. Don’t afraid of losing people. Be afraid of losing yourself trying to please everyone around you.
Being yourself and learn how to compromise:
Being oneself is not about self-centric and thinks only for you; which is selfish. We can totally be ourselves and make compromises. Because a life without compromise, it does not exist. Sometimes you will have to do small things to please someone you love. For example, go to function at your friend’s house when you’d rather watch a good football match.